I have the feeling that I may have been played by my WW. At least that's what my father thinks. So I get a text earlier from W asking me what time I am getting off. Tell her same time as usual, unless something comes up. So W tells me that she is having vehicle issues and needs for me to pick her up if possible. So I agree to pick her up from work and bring her back to her house. In the vehicle everything is cordial and we even talk and laugh about some things.
So I ask her what exactly is wrong with the vehicle. W says that she noticed a flat tire during lunch and quickly took the car back to her place before it could get completely flat. We get back to her place and the car is sitting there with a flat tire in the driveway. So I inquire why didn't she change the tire, since the spare is in the trunk? She mentions that she didn't want to drive with it for a couple of days. I mention that you could use long long enough, until you can get a replacement. Which would be tomorrow, since that's when we get paid. W plan is to get the vehicle towed to Walmart for them to change the tire. But not before finding a tire tonight.
Now the old version of myself would have said how crazy this plan was. But I kept that to myself and said "Sounds like a plan." And since she didn't ask for help with the tire, I never offered to change it myself. We exchanged S13 who was at her place and left from there. No win the back of my mine, I can't help but to wonder. Where are these so called men who were in my W ear telling her to leave this MR? I know one in particular works in Public Works down the street from her. Could this guy not change a tire? But yet she called the one guy who emailed divorce papers to her a few days ago. The guy who she acts as if hadn't done a thing for her the whole 17 years we were together.
And OM who leaves in VA. Will he be sending the money in order to replace the tire? I highly doubt it due to the fact that he is only good for a good time. And being my W obsession. In a way I feel as if she tested me to see if I would show up to help. And I just confirmed that she could still call me whenever she needed me. That I am still her go to guy whenever sh*t hits the fan. But she can still mess with everybody else for a good time. My father pretty much confirmed that is what she did. But I'm just curious to hear, especially from Sandi is he correct about what just happened. And how I should have handled things if I did get tested.
