Standing up for yourself, being confident, not taking attitude from WW, setting boundaries with the WW and sticking to them.

(At least, that's what I've seen here. My STBXW is still on the way out the door.)

The thing is, you can't make her respect you. You can only get to a point where you respect yourself.

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.