MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[peacetoday]

It seems like a long wait from Bomb drop to D

I did not file and I was hoping mY xh would not but he did and he quickly M ow within months..I heard they tried to have kids at one point but he could not
Now it looks like they are D
Usually if you sit by there side lines, it will just happen
many people get D and MLCer still can change their mind after

use every day to take care of yourself
the days pile into years and b4 you know it it is over

I look back with No regret not for anything
My Xh could not be a good father once in MLC so I am grateful he left
I think he took care of the kids by leaving and not exposing them too his crazy choices
I grateful I tried to save my M
I think I changed
I think I was there for xh
I was a friend to him
even though he was horrible to all of us
he did the best he could

its never easy to leave a R and hurt the other but some R. are not meant to be forever
and Mine was one of those