[quote=Benito]I didnt care what she was doing. She was gone. This was my life now and i had sort it out.
The problem with most LBS is that they change to get the WAS back yes amen. Tactics, not change.
and are constantly looking for the WAS reaction. YES (and push their spouses away and over think everything) and they call it "monitoring" but they do it daily.
I fear that what they really want is NOT self improvement or growth, so much as for the WAS to change their mind and go back to what was, before.
If they dont show the desired reation they throw their toys out the pram and go back to square one. YES! Some will say "it's hopeless" so they can throw their hands up. But to avoid the one upside to this ordeal (personal growth, spiritual development, etc)
is to stay stuck in a bad place.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
