The reason I ask b/c I think my WW is anxiously waiting for me to get together with someone so that she can finally legitimize her OM in everyone's eyes. Like "see, he's over me and dating, so my future is with OM and all of you need to forget about Painful b/c he doesn't want to be with me"
What Sandi2 says makes sense if you read her detailed discussions of WW's, but... I have to admit that my gut, like yours is telling you, keeps telling me my own WW is eager for me to get together with someone else so that she can be freed up. In fact, she told me this during one of our conversations several weeks back-- I mentioned that the comments she made and things she said on a few occasions in years past made me think she thought I might be having an affair, and she responded that she had actually hoped that i was having one from time to time because that would have given her an easy out.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
