Yeah, in my experience any counseling or support based in a church (including Divorce Care) can be very preachy, unfortunately. The WAS is very self-centered, so I don't think a God-heavy approach ("What you're supposed to do") is appropriate.

I recommend you find someone else for MC. Ask your W if she would like to pick someone. She needs to be 100% comfortable with the person.

Has she mentioned going to MC again?


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.