Update,

Oh, about the counselor, she say that they were too religious. She wants to go to a counselor that has a degree. She want's a person that can give her tools to help with her depression and crying at night.

While she talked to a counselor, I talked to a Pastor, he gave me great advice.

After the sessions ended the Pastor, wanted to talked to my wife, and he started off IMO a little forward.

The first he says to my wife is, "where did you get that beautiful smile, Walmart?". Then he made another comment on her smile. The he proceeds to asked her does she wants to be married, she said I don't know. He asked her 3 times. I was like why. Then he asked her, what does the bible say about marriage, and how does GOD feel about marriage, does he want divorce, and he forced her to answer, and she said "No". Then he went in on, are you coming to church this Sunday and she said I don't know. He asked that 3 times. I could tell she was getting mad.

Then I went in the room with the counselor, to ask a few questions, he took my wife off to the side, and after he finished talking to her, and while we were walking to our vehicles, she says, "that pastor don't understand personal space".

Yesterday, she told me that, that Pastor was too much, and I agreed.


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.