Great, don't help anymore financially. Your job is to take of yourself, your home and your kids. She is on her own now. It's her journey to take. You have to take yours. Fine time for yourself. You will need it. You are dealing with a lot. If you were in Texas, I would try to meet up with you. Holding and I met up a few weekends ago it was a great conversation.
Try to figure out ways to get your WW out of your head. The will help with detaching. The less you think about her, the easier it will be to distance yourself.
You will no longer be an option to her. And less be honest, if this guy is who you say he is. Why not push them closer, so she can depend on him more? You need to read up on detaching with love, it has been one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. It easy to walk away from a person, but doing it with love and not being mean, is difficult especially to someone you felt has betrayed you. But it has helped make my home and easier place to live in.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
