GW,

It's ok the feel the way you are feeling. Your wife has put you thru alot.

Can I ask some questions? Did you leave or did she leave during the separation? Is she not trying to help you with the Bankruptcy situation that she caused?

IMHO she is showing you a lot of disrespect. She probably feels like you will take whatever she dishes out. She has not had to face reality at all yet. It might be time for you to have that hard talk with yourself, about giving your wife a real dose of reality. She is really in Fantasy land. You are picking up all the pieces she has produced. You have to show her that you as an option is not a definite. How do you do that? How can you make her feel that her safety net is no longer going to be there? The person that is actually taken care of her is heading towards to exit. What can you do?

Has divorce become an option for you? I'm not saying get the D papers, but do you think you will be ok if you had to go that direction?

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.