Any Advice 3

[gw5263]

She untagged herself right after the friend sent the post that said HMMMMMMMM. She said she did it because people might talk and ask her about us. I know she did it because she didnt want OM to see it and get the wrong idea. The reason i went on the daytrip is the kids wanted it. They wanted to have a day all together.
Her saying her heart was closed and would not open to working on us said a lot to me. If she has no intentions of ever working on the M where does that leave me? It leaves me looking at the final option. Or to begin DB the correct way this time,
and really detach and GAL. Should I add NC except for the kids and finances ?

Im not leaving the house again, but i will be scarce here. I hae a ton of legal work regarding a bankruptcy i have twenty days to file in order to save my home. That should occupy my time outside the home. I have to do this because when this all began and she forced separation on me she stopped paying bills because it took time from facetiming OM.
To answer your other question, what do I intend to do if she has no intentions of working on us? right now ifeel like filing for D and let her see how that is going to pan out for her. She got pissed when i told her that OM's retirement was already gonna be split between three exes, which left nothing for her. And it made her mad when i told her he probably had a woman or two on the side. Her actions and words last night made me feel like dirt, like im not worth even trying for. So she achived her goal last night. I felt totally lost last night...