Hi Holding,

Apologies about the delay but I do have some feedback in reference to my situation that is a great insight for other members here:

I asked W last night what was her main catalyst in her change of direction.

Her answer

"After watching so many changes I started to wonder if I really wanted lose that sort of person from my life"

If that doesn't give an indication that detaching and focusing on yourself is the way forward to a WAS then I dont know what is.