This reminds me of recurring conversations I have with my teen daughter. No, you can't get back [some privilege she lost] right away by promising that you'll be good from now on. Demonstrate good attitude and good behavior for a few days first, and then you may earn it back.
It's so hard to be knee deep in a situation and see clearly.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final