I'm not going to lie. Your story is one of the most heart breaking Sitch I have read on here. Your life is work and family. Where are your friends? Put in those amount of hours is back breaking and your Wife agreed. And you made time thru all of that wow. I applaud you!!!!!
I think it's time for Clyde to get some of Clyde back. I'm glad you work hard and provide for your family. How were you fulfilling your wife emotional needs?
Were you tired when you finished working to talk to her, make love to her (not sex), listen to her? You were waking up at 5 A.M. every morning. Man that's taxing. You need some alone time IMHO. Time just by yourself. It might not seem tight at the moment. But I know it will help you.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.