As for the other phone situation. There might be one. But I don't see any indicators to support that.
Neither did my H, or the other H's that were duped. That's why it's referred to as "going underground". Your W has not exhibited any signs of going through withdrawals from the affair, from what I can determine from your posts. Instead, she is showing signs of still being contact with her lover.
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I will take this day by day, and look for the baby steps.
Okay, what do you consider being baby steps for her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
