Sorry that you are going through all of this. But is way past trying to save your MR. Divorce your W and keep it moving. Your entire way of life is at stake. The deputies know your W is lying and still kicked you out if your home. There should be a report made every time they showed up, regardless if it was a civil matter. The friend is leading the charge. So it's time to start putting dirt out on her and all her A. And throw them other friends under the bus as well.
People on here will advise you to be the bigger person. But This is literally your life here. W will have you only getting supervised visit with your children at this rate. Its time for you to charge your W with domestic violence for those scratches if still possible. The officer you talked to should be able to back your story since he saw the scratches. And talked to your lawyer about coming up with a real plan.
Don't let let him just get back to you. Because that friend is probably at your house right now in your W ear. Forget the MR at this point. Save yourself and your children.
