Thanks GORDIE for your continued interest. I haven't decided exactly what I will do about this years anniversary. It will be low key though.
Bttrfly, thanks for your support. I am glad something I shared helped you. I do appreciate your womanly viewpoint. No I don't and won't go into that category.
Best wishes readers
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together