I haven't met him, but he rather seems like a guy taking an opportunity than an alpha male seeking for affairs. XW said she's happy now that someone wanted her, as she thought no one would never want her - plus they are so together all the time (if not physically then texting) which implies he is serious about it.

Maybe she is talking the truth that they only started after BD? I don't know. There were so big signs and statistics (lol) say that when you have a strong suspicion, it's almost always right.

I wouldn't do what he did but I can't force my morals to others. He just isn't a scumbag cheater, like e.g. your W's AP Tread.


In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced
2 young kids
new relationship