After they made sure I was not the threat I was made out to be they removed the cuffs and started questioning both of us apart from one another. I offered to show them that there were no firearms in the house, they told me it was not necessary. They again told us that it was a civil matter, nothing they could do, no report was taken. The deputy that questioned my w came out and told me she was going to leave for a while, I said good, he then told me that she was going to take the kids and there was nothing I could do about it, however my d who was 12 at the time clearly did not want to go w/ the w, and legally she is not old enough to have a say in it, but that he could clearly see that she did not want to go with her mom and he could not see any reason not to let her stay with me, so she did.

Later that evening my dad had just picked up my d to take her swimming. I heard the gate and there was my w unlocking the gate to let 8 deputies in. The came right in my house, forcefully sat me down at my table and served me with a Temporary Restraining Order stating that I was not allowed near my w, kids, or my house until a court date about 4 weeks away. They gave me two minutes to gather my belongings and leave.

To obtain the TRO, my w claimed that I slammed her in the gate the day she was trying to have me served, also claimed I jammed my finger into her chest when arguing, and that I throw stuff at her in front of the kids. All a complete fabrication.


The sun still rises, even though the pain.

Married: 10 Together: 17
M:40 W:37
D:13, S 7, S:5
1st Bomb dropped: 4/20/17 2nd Bomb dropped: 6/6/17
Separated: 7/26/17
W moved back home: 12/1/17