How a treehouse can cost you your marriage

[Clyde]

At that point things got real ugly. Her friend had just became a paralegal and started coaching my w how to screw me. For example, my w took all my tax documents, when I asked her about them she claimed I was harassing her and to leave her alone, I simply asked once.

I went to a show one night, first time I was going out alone through this entire ordeal. The w seamed in a good mood so before I left I asked to speak with her away from the kids. I told her I had come to terms with what was happening but still hopeful we will work things out, meanwhile I hope we can handle the separation in a civil way, no need for lawyers, and that we should discuss who gets what and agree not to take anything out of the house with out agreeing. She said yes, so I left for the show. About 2 hours later my dad drove by our house (unbeknownst to me) and called to tell me she was loading stuff in a friends car, and to get home now, she might be trying to take the kids (she had threatened this). I was an hour away and headed home immediately. When I got home my w had taken anything of value out of the house, 99% of the stuff she took was hers,(gifts I had brought her) but she also took all the kids records.

I was furious she did this right after our conversation, and that she did it in front of my kids. My d told me she had to ask her mom to leave some stuff on the mantle and book shelves so they were not bare. My w had already been sleeping on the coach for the past 2 months since mentioning her wanting a d. I told her to get the rest of her stuff out of the bedroom, I'm putting a lock on it tomorrow, and I will build her a cabinet in the dinning room to store her stuff in until she leaves.
My d told me it was the paralegal who helped her move everything and saw her mom signing a bunch of papers in the paralegals car.

The next morning we are arguing about some of the things she took the were not clearly hers, I walk outside to get some air and there are two Sheriff deputies at our gate, I asked them why they were there and they told me the w's sister called for a wellness check because she had not heard from her in a few days, (total bs - she was on the phone with her most the morning), anyways they talked to both of us and said the property issues are civil, nothing they can do, so deputies leave, no report taken.

My d asked why they were there so I told her that trish (pseudo sister) called them because she was worried because she could not get a hold of mom, my d immediately pointed out that she was just on the phone with her, I shrugged my shoulders and said it was probably someone else her m was taking to. Little did I know that my daughter intended to prove me wrong... later that day she got in the w's phone and found a text from the sister saying "ok I called the police, I told them he was holding you hostage w/ guns!" I was floored! Btw- I had removed all firearms from the house weeks prior as soon as I felt I was being set up.