How a treehouse can cost you your marriage

[Clyde]

At that point living together was rough, she refused to talk about our m, she got a job waitressing, and would not come home 2-3 nights a week. She would not let me or the kids know she was mot coming home, and sometimes stay out half the next day... on several occasions she left us stranded with no car seats. She would tell me she stayed at the sisters house, when she would answer her phone I could hear her sister in the background, sometimes telling my w what to say. Not only did this frustrate me, but it really bothered the kids... prior to this behavior I could not of asked for a better mother to my kids. I asked her to at least let is know when she was not coming home, she did not. I finally had enough, told her it needs to stop or she needs to move out fast, I do not want the kids to go through this. She had been looking for an apartment already, unto that point I tried to talk her out of it, but she managed to make the situation unbearable. She did it the very next day, leaving us with no car seats so we had to skip church. I finally agreed with her that some space might be needed... telling her "I know you feel you need to leave our home in pursuit of happiness, I will hope and pray that pursuit brings you back home, there will always be a place setting at this home for you."