Thanks Tread. The point I was trying to make about the boyfriend scenario was to help H's find an objective balance in the man they were when the W fell for him.....and the man he is now when the W is cheating on him. I hope that makes sense.


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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!