Thanks AS, just trying to strike a balance so I dont come off as vindictive or trying to punish her. I also don't think lecturing her on her inability to stay on track with her budget would be effective either. I have offered to sit down again and re-visit the situation as well which she declined. I guess I wil just have to figure my way through it. I appreciate your support.
On a side note I hope everyone is well and had a good day. Feeling good, hit the gym this AM and then took my D's and dogs to the dog park for a bit. Then we came home and played outside for a while, the weather in TX was beautiful today.
This may go against Db principals but I said WTF. My texted and said she was coming over to bring the girls to me for the week. She also indicated she wasn't feeling good and thinks she caught the virus my youngest had last week. I told her i was sorry and to feel better, I also told her let me know if she needed anything. She didn't want to come in so she asked me to leave the garage door open so she could just put the stuff in the garage. I told her NP and I had a couple cans of tomato soup and crackers so I put that in the garage for her. After she left she sent me a text with a picture of the items saying LOL....thank you. Being the suave guy I am I didn't respond. Just trying to be the bigger person.......that's how I roll