Chris as a point of reference. I have a wedding to go to on 11/10 for some family friends. I have my D's that weekend and will be taking them. I have no idea if my W is going or was invited but since we are separated it is not my responsibility to invite her. If she goes she will go because she got an invite not because I will be asking her. We are not a family any more so it is not my responsibility. Make sense?
