Thanks for the advice Sandi. As a boyfriend, I would have just kicked W to the curb and replaced her with someone else by now. So asking what you would do as a boyfriend is a tricky question . As for filing for divorce. Just at the point of acting like a monk, while W is doing what she wants with OM just doesn't feel good. If she comes back one day, then we'll see what happens. But right now I no longer feel like waiting. Not sure how that will affect things with DB'ing.
