Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Why would you ask her that question? I assume your goal was for her to say

"No, I want to recommit to our marriage and rebuild it, now that we had a few hours without fighting"??


No, actually an emphatic "Yes" is what I expected to hear.

WW seems to be softening...Labor Day weekend it was "it's not healthy for us to stay together" to "do you want to meet at xxx". From "I don't feel comfortable around you" to spending the day together in less than 4 days timespan.

I get the no pursuit so I definitely need to back off!

I will say thanks to you 25, I really started to notice results the minute I backed off the "truth darts" and stopped being a popular nickname for Richard to WW. I have learned to STFU(like when she didn't refer to me as her husband Sunday) and take stock of the little changes that I've noticed. Those changes are noted in my DR solutions journal.

Thanks for the 2x4's all!

Progress not perfection!


M50 WW50
T27 M23
D17
D15
EA#1 3/2010
BD 5/2/2017

Trying to make sense out of crazymaking