At the last minute I helped WW work a festival Sunday…planned on just dropping off DD15 and leaving. DD15 didn’t want to stay so WW asked if I wouldn’t mind staying to help. I said yes.
WW: If you stay I ‘m going to have to buy you a new shirt Me: Ok
So a few minutes later WW returns with a nice high end designer short sleeve shirt!
Overall it was a nice day and we had a nice time together. I remained calm and confident engaging customers more than I did in the past. Didn’t talk R at all…held my tongue when she referred to me by my first name rather than “my Husband”. But towards the end two people were looking at our merchandise and the male asked “Are you two married”. In a delayed response we both said yes.
Afterwards I texted:
Me: I had a nice time today WW: Thanks…it was a nice day
I consider the day a minor victory because earlier in the week WW said she was uncomfortable around me.
Also had this text exchange…pursuing I know…need to balance distance with gauging where her mind is:
Me: Yes or no do you still want Divorce? WW: I don’t know WW: I can’t make that decision right now
