Sat down with the kids yesterday to tell them about the new schedule and that ultimately "mommy is going to get a new house." D5 was excited that she would have 2 houses, "YAY!"
Very sorry you're going through this but what you describe is actually fairly common. When my W and I talked to our kids to break the news that W was moving out, they too were more interested in their new rooms and furniture and such. And honestly, if they can manage to find a silver lining in this mess then that is good, because they will experience a lot of pain and hurt over it too.
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I slept for 9 hours last night (this about 3 more than normal) and all I wanted to do when I woke up was call out sick and spend this dreary rainy day in bed watching dumb tv while drifting in and out of sleep. And I was really close to doing that, but I forced myself to go in. I have IC at 3pm, a meditation group at 6 and then I'll probably go to the gym after that...
Good, GAL is your way through this mess! Keep it up!