This feeling has also shown me the way to more empathy for my H. If he felt this way (and I think he did, or worse), of course he needed to get away. He was never trying to hurt me, he needed to save himself. It may not be any better where he is now, but he couldn't see another path.
Me 45 H 46 At bomb T 22 M 13 D14 S12
H fell in love 2/14 H moved out 11/14 H bought a house 8/15 Legal sep 9/15, final 12/15 - I filed No moves toward D
