Clyde,

Sorry you are here. Reminds me of my buddy whose w said she was done when he didn’t remember to call the lawn sprinkler guy. Obviously this was the straw that broke the camel’s back, tragically. You are a good guy, a provider, a good dad, no major vices, right? Sounds like there were issues related to the amount of time you spent with your w, that maybe she felt ignored or not paid attention to, or prioritized? Maybe you weren’t the best listener? How were you in the romance department? How was your sex life? Are you still living together? Has she filed for divorce? She was a SAHM? Did she have unfulfilled dreams and desires? Is there an OM in the picture? The more we know, the more we can help. You may feel really alone right now, but there are a lot of us in the same boat.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving