I know today had to be one if the toughest in your life. But you need to stop feeling bad about XW. She got herself in this mess. So you have no obligation to feel anything in regards to her based decisions.
As for child support, I know you want to look out for XW. But that money is for yiur children. Like you my W will owe me child support and I ain't turning down nothing. I cover the insurance for S13. And like your W mine got some money issues, but that is for her deal with. Those life choices are going to start settling in. And OM won't help with one bill.
You a good man though. Especially considering that she showed up late. And with bite marks on her neck. No class all the way to the end of the MR.
