I am basically asking what i need to do to replace OM as the one supplying her emotional needs. I want to be the beeter choice to provide these than him.
Maaybe im stupid, or hard headed, but i cannot seem to grasp this. I have the DR book got it today. I also have the five love languages book, and my D got my wife to take the quiz that determines each persons style, hers is words of affirmation, which i can clearly see is what she is getting from him. I also think i ruined some plans for a possible hookup this weekend by taking it off. WW has told me three separate times that i dont have to take the weekend off, to save the time.
Well, the 15th is OM birthday and i think he went to his parents in WV, I believe he was set to come this way on the way back to Georgia to get his " Present", and that is why shes brought up me going to work. They did the same thing in april and she denied the helll out of it till i confronted her with proof. She lied to me to protect him, because at that time i was all about turning him in and that would have nailed his door shut. If i go to work, it gets physical. If i stay home, it wont. But she will figure out that i know the deal
M 51 W 46 D14 S13 M 16yrs T17yrs BD 06/25/17 OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances