Living in limbo and hating it

[TBSakaJ9]

Pain....only you know your sitch that said my anniversary was last month and I didn't say a word and my W did not reach out to me.

My thought process was that she left, doesn't love me, doesn't want to be with me why on earth would I acknowledge it????

What would you say? When I ran the scenarios in my head I didn't think it put me in a favorable position.