Chris
We're all feeling for you. I hope your wife is indeed bitterly regretting things. With my sitch I now have to play a waiting game and hope the iron clad physical evidence lands in my lap as I don't.want to.obtain it through snooping this time. As Sandi2 says only then will my W realise the enormity.of what she has done to her family when she hits rock bottom but at what cost? My W also knows exactly what will happen if.I do.stumble upon anything and I have to say I'm dreading that moment.

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains