I am at a loss on what to do but this is getting old. I mean I know the hardline stance is sorry go figure it out. If i did that it would be hard for me to do because I still think big picture and if this goes to D how would that play out??? When she does this it impacts me as well because it impacts my budget also. I know most folks would say tough you need to go figure it out, I just don't think it's the right thing to do, I mean we are technically still married.
I totally get where you are coming from. There might be some here that would say "screw her, that's her problem" but I happen to agree with you that you may have some financial responsibility towards her. I can't keep up with the exact details of everyone's sitches but if you were making most or all of the money in the M and will be subject to paying alimony then you do have some responsibility there and should help her out some if it's within your means. Also I do agree with your point that NOT doing so may accelerate her into pushing the D through simply for financial reasons, so that's a consideration too.
