LOL...thanks Blu and JJ just doing my thing. I have realized through this process that my W walked away from a great person. Sure I got a little lazy and was naïve to Love Languages and the nuances of relationships but I have always done these types of things with my girls and I always supported my W. I have had this re-enforced through my IC sessions as we have discussed my opportunities. I am truly content with who I am as a person and what I bring to the table in relationships. I will be smarter next time and add some new elements but the core of who I am is awesome!
I don't know what my W is going through or why she felt like she did. She couldn't even explain it to me so if she can't how would I figure it out? I have no anger, only empathy for her and sadness. I hope she truly finds the happiness she is looking for.