Chris, Great job with how you feel with the housing and putting your kids first! Since BD I wanted nothing more than for my W to fail miserably! At the end of the day I loved this woman for 25 years, she is a good person and mom to my kids(somewhere in there. lol), so I want my kids provided for!
As far as how your wife feels, she may seem to be so happy with her life but you can't worry about what she's doing, everything she does now is to justify her decision for your current situation. I too felt this way until a close friend of ours told me that she is just holding it together for the kids, that she was actually ashamed for what she has done to our family. With that, focus on you and the kids, they need you and you need you!
