Hi Zues, my friend. I just wanted to state for the record I do not agree with what this person is doing. She knew who he was when she married him, hoping he would change. And I don't think she should have an A, obviously.
That being said, I know we have some different views, and we have the utmost respect for each other.
But I do see certain actions in a marriage that are a form of infidelity and abuse.
I hope anyone can learn from here, however, to take accountability. I have. I think laying all the blame on the WAS by saying "well, you didn't threated divorce, else I would have changed, it's your fault" will not benefit anyone in reconciling their current marriage or helping them with their future relationships.
