My situation is hopeless. They are going to marry. It's a fact.
Hi LC,
My situation is hopeless - Your opinion
They are going to marry - Your opinion
Its a fact - Its not a fact, its your opinion.
You have no idea what is round the corner, but if you have this mind set you are literally preparing yourself for the worse.
Even the people that have achieved some sort of recon have all thought it was over at some point, but if you keep believing and looking to improve, you never know what is waiting for you.. whether you end up on your own, or with someone else, or even a new relationship with your W. You seem to want to shut that door pretty quickly considering your D isn't even final yet.