Help needed from Far-east.

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Hi.
I’d like to update my situation. Her OM went back to US last Tuesday. I started detaching since last Monday as soon as my daughter left.

Not even past 24 hrs. , my wife came talk to me she can’t stand me acting like this. If I continue acting distantly, she will not go to Japan trip on October. We planned this trip six months ago, my daughter is very excited about this trip. I told her that I needed my space too. Sorry if that make you uncomfortable. So, after that conversation I try to interact with her a little more just to get past the upcoming trip. She seemed happier. The thing confuses me is that she is now the one text me when I’m not around, asked me to have lunch or go shopping with her. I knew this might be a test. So, I didn’t get excited about it. I went if I was hungry too and went if I have sth to buy.

One night, she came to me told me that she had a headache, she is very sorry about what happened. Thing between us seem to go to the right direction but she gave up my love for too long. She wish that we were like this before this might not happen. I just listened to her without saying a single word and went back to sleep.

Last Friday, while I was driving from picking up my daughter with my wife, she texted her OM back and forth for 20 mins. I pulled over at the gas station and sat outside the car drinking coffee for almost 30 mins. She came out to me ask what’s wrong. I told her if she want to text or talk to OM don’t do it in my car or our bedroom. I got in and drove home without talking to her til the end of the day.

Any suggestion on what should I do next? Please....