I had a day planned with the kids yesterday going to fall events. My W said she needed to stay home to get school work done...only getting 5 hours of sleep per night and all. Made sense to me.
So, the kids and I go out and have a great day. We come back, and my W is cleaning a bathroom. Not sure what she did while we were gone for 8 hours, but it was not school work, and only 1 hour of chores were done. It seems she just does not want to do anything I plan for the kids or family. I am thinking I should just plan tons of stuff that she will likely miss out on by not joining us.
Well, your wife is having an EA and she is mad at you for telling your sister. So, no, she doesn't want to have family days. This is not surprising, and I wouldn't expect her to want to. She has checked out of the marriage. So you continue having a great time with your kids and she will spend time with them on her own.
