Just talked to W on the phone. She was def more calm and collected. She explained how she felt deisrepected again because our interactions have been minimal due to NC; but I was reaching out to her fam. I explained we had discussed if she felt uncomfortable I would stop; she expressed how she would never want that... So I was confused.

Basically W said it boils down to; if we talk or at least if I respond to her calls she doesn't mind me reading out to the family. So I told her I cannot promise I will respond to her reaching out to me bc I still wasn't sure how I felt about he at the moment (bc of the OM)r; so I rather just tell her now I will stop reaching out to her family.




After getting advise or thoughts on the above conversation; can you also ahead light on when I said "I'm not sure how I feel towards you"....

Why would I say that? Did that take steps back? Do I need to correct myself? The reason I said it; the reason it came out of my mouth was because she still is not coming to me saying she will stop all contact with OM....etc

Last edited by Cadet; 11/14/17 04:12 AM. Reason: combine posts
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