I get exactly where your coming from. You could for 2-3 weeks being cool, then you catch W talking to OM like she has been doing. But for some reason you want to toss the phone that day. Especially on a day where family should be the priority. Don't feel bad about venting to us. This is the place for it. And the fact that you did so shows that you are in control of the sitch.
My logic is the same as yours. W complained abiut the same things as yours, but yet she wants to abandon our MR and family to chase OM who she is carrying on an R with by phone conversations and text. Plus this guy has no intent on leaving his MR. The whole thing just left me baffled. And for awhile it made me feel like something was truly wrong with me to lose my W to this guy.
Overtime I realized that maybe was broken way before I married her. But on occasion I still wonder how this relationship has lasted since December via phone? But it's all a fantasy.
