How are you punishing her by telling her no? Explain? She didnt fulfill her responsibilities. You can keep propping her up. She has to live with her choices. Did you make her go out. NO! That's her choice make her live with it. When it comes to divorce and court, if you can prove she went out and didn't manage her money right and she is putting a strain on your pocket, then you should be alright.
How long will you keep bailing her out. Stop. She decided to go out and waste her money on a non need, you are being responsible. Keep it up. Good job.
Oh, I bet you look stunning. You probably look so good, It's driving crazy to even think about acknowledging it. Now you have more fuel on that fire you are building.
Her world is def not stable right now. Stay strong.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.