It's very hard to not get pissed and just end it all. I have felt that way a bunch of days. But I told myself thats the easy way out and my kids deserve a fight from me. A Hurclean try. I will be her best option. The one thing I have learned from being in the Army, the number one need that needs to be filled is basic needs. When those needs are neglected no other needs matter.

IMO, your wife is def in fantasy land. It's my opinion. But from all you have described so far, this man is not about to give upnis military career, so why not let her go, because, if he tries to leave his wife he will lose a lot. BAH belongs to the family, so is he willing to part with his way of life over your wife. It's going to take courage, but I'm a betting man and the odds or ever in your favor. But you have to pull yourself out of the picture while leaving the door cracked.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.