Yo Yo everyone....saw the W today at my D's soccer games. At the 2nd game of the day some of our good friends came to the game to watch our oldest play. BTW she had 2 goals!! Anyway I hadnt seen them in a while and when they came up to us on the sidelines they immediately commented on how good I looked. They then turned to my W and said wow, doesn't he looked good!! My W reponded with something like yeah but it took her a minute to respond. It was like she wasn't expecting the question and it took her off guard and of course she couldn't admit it or give me a compliment. I was like F U. Geez.
Then after the game she came up to me and said she ran out of money and since she doesnt get paid until the 20th she only hd 20 bucks to get her to the date. This is the second time this has happened and she asked for our redit card again. I told her no but that I would Quick Cash her some money. I don't think she has stayed on her budget since she moved out. Last weekend she took a trip out of town with 10 of her girlfriends so I know that is what did it. She doesn't have enough money to do that sort of stuff and she has already maxed out the credit she opened up in her name when she first moved out.
I am at a loss on what to do but this is getting old. I mean I know the hardline stance is sorry go figure it out. If i did that it would be hard for me to do because I still think big picture and if this goes to D how would that play out??? When she does this it impacts me as well because it impacts my budget also. I know most folks would say tough you need to go figure it out, I just don't think it's the right thing to do, I mean we are technically still married. I refuse to give her the credit card with the large limit on it and her name is not on it, the card is in my name. I guess my thought process is that I know she is struggling with money and I also know the kids wear thin on her when she has them for her week I guess I am just trying to not punish her since thats not my job.
If the D was in process this piece would be much easier......uggh.
