Ok i will explain my position..
I have a goal. I see a finish line and it is very close..
By me cutting this last string he has with me ( child support wich i no longer need as the kids are very responsable and mature ). College and University is all covered, i am setting myself free of him.

8 years is long enough. I am sadden by my broken marriage but i would not tolerate this kind of treatment from anyone. Not even my life partner. This is not love to me.

My goals: well, like i said above, the children are set for their future. I will relocate with D14 next spring in order to be closer to my other 2 Daughters who will be attending University. My son has plan to join us the following year has he would be done his College.
I want and see myself getting a very good position with Sobeys. There was mention of me getting my own store if i was interested( from an inside source.)
Very flattering but i don' t want it. I would go for specialist however. But not for another 3 years as i would still have a daughter at home. This is my future plan. For now, management would do and the position i have turned down( delayed ) seemed to be waiting for me! smile
I will make it! I have the determination to do whatever it takes. And i always have a plan b.