"we forget to water the grass by continuing dating and taking time for the just two of us."

Sorry but that's very biased how do you know Matrix or me for that matter didn't invest in our MR? I do agree once this happens we snap out of habitual hibernation BUT that also works both ways I just chose to not cross the line.

Thanks.

DR'ing started March 2017

Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".