Question: others mention plan b and this is how we’re perceived by our WW/H did we not get to this point over time? If this happened to US those that have gone through childbirth, our wedding many family events and the commitment to build a home then why do some feel that this won’t happen to the “lovebirds”! I feel if they do remain plan a’s for each other then it’s meant to be – simple but also feel that the chances for that aren’t great.
I’ll move forwards with MY life as that’s the ONLY thing I can control but with the hope that in time her present plan a turns into the inevitable plan b whilst I’ve either continued to show her a better option OR moved on to pastures new. How I show her that better option is what I get beat up over!
Your post has helped me a great deal with respect to the concept and I appreciate it.
M.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
