Now it's me being selfish...

[Don23]

I asked my wife last night if she was ready to file because the home in just exhausting the way it is. She pretty much said yes. We had a small argument and agreed to talk about it in the morning (her tylenol PM had kicked in). I went to a friends house because I wasn't going to be able to sleep at home. Came back in the morning and we had a lengthy talk. I told her that if she has no interest in repairing the relationship and trying to get help with the anger that she has towards me than she may as well file and we can both start moving on. The convo went on for a while but that was the jest of it. It ended well actually, tears from both sides, a strong hug and she said she has a lot to think about. She got ready for work, popped her head in my office and told me to have a good day (SHE HASNT SAID THAT IN MONTHS). I just got a text from her good friend asking me what happened last night because my wife just told her that she is going to get counseling because she is not being fair to our relationship!!!! I am floor'd! I know, its her last effort to really see if the relationship can be saved but Im just glad that she's actually going to try. Now I hope she gets a good counselor