Sandi – I’m not going to pester you any more about your situation but again everybody’s is different, I’m just happy it turn out for the best for you.
You were not pestering me. I simply want all the men on the board to realize my reconciliation did not come about due to my H's actions. I have guys asking me what did he do to get me to stay in the M. I'm trying to get all of you to see that the spouse who is not coming to the board doesn't have the answer. He was blindsided, shattered, and lost as to what to do....just like you.
I think the men here want to know how Mr. Sandi got a WW to end her A and stay in the M. I'm saying you are seeking answers from someone (Mr. Sandi) who did not have the answers. My advice is to stick with the source that can give you the tools.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
You were not pestering me. I simply want all the men on the board to realize my reconciliation did not come about due to my H's actions. I have guys asking me what did he do to get me to stay in the M. I'm trying to get all of you to see that the spouse who is not coming to the board doesn't have the answer. He was blindsided, shattered, and lost as to what to do....just like you. 